Diplomacy is often interpreted by most
only in the conventional sense – the art of statecraft. To the common man: the
sensitive world of well dressed, serious men and women discussing matters
regarding politics, international agreements or something of a similar
nature. The first image that comes to mind are the dark suited officials who
shake hands with some political figure or speak at an international forum like
the United Nations. It isn’t entirely a wrong image – but there’s more to it
than that.
What most people don’t realize is that
diplomacy is something we all employ on a daily basis. Humans, as the world’s
most social creatures cannot avoid interactions with others. Regardless of
whether it’s family, friends or complete strangers, we will interact. At home,
school and work; or even on the road, we rely on diplomacy to bargain for a
better outcome. Diplomacy is about being sensitive to the needs and
expectations of another and acting with tact. It is about using one’s awareness
to make decisions that provide favourable results. A well-reasoned explanation
to a being late for work, thus avoiding a pay-cut, is diplomacy. Convincing the
mother to allow you to spend a few hours outdoors with friends, in exchange for
some chores, is diplomacy. Intervening in a lovers’ quarrel to settle the
matter and bring peace to both parties, is diplomacy. It is probably the most
well used but least identified skill in any social setting in today’s world.
My experience with BIDTI runs 6 years back. I had just left school and was expecting to commence my higher education in the field of medicine. Model United Nations had been one of my interests in school, and even though medicine ultimately became my career choice, I could not give up easily on being a diplomat – a problem solver, a negotiator, a solution provider. The Bandaranaike International Diplomatic Training Institute provided me with the opportunity to further my aspirations. It remains Sri Lanka’s premier diplomacy training institute, providing guidance and training for many local and foreign trainees since 1994.
Throughout my time there, initially as a
school leaver and later a medical student, the atmosphere created at the BIDTI
was itself a stimulus. The lectures were based on topics that were vital in
understanding diplomacy – not only for utilization in understanding statecraft
but also as a means of training oneself. Amidst lectures of world history,
regional conflicts and the Sri Lankan legal system, we experienced first-hand
how to face media interviews; learnt about personality development and even how
to host the perfect dinner – down to laying out a menu and proper table
etiquette. It isn’t just a series of lectures at the BIDTI, it is an
experience. Engaging with eminent senior professionals, both local and foreign,
who have years of experience in their disciplines, discussing and sharing their
know-how in an optimized learning environment is what BIDTI provides.
As interesting the topics of
conversation were, the connections made at BIDTI were truly special. People
from various walks of life were touching shoulders regularly – students of
multiple disciplines, diplomats in training, ministry officials, journalists,
pilots, lawyers, doctors, career military personnel, various other government
and private sector employees – the list goes on. Discussing and debating
sensitive and relevant topics over coffee and being exposed to facades that we had
no prior knowledge of, was a regular occurrence. We’ve passed put now, but some
of those bonds initiated by BIDTI, last a very long time.
With the distinguished multidisciplinary
panel of lecturers including multiple ambassadors, high commissioners and other
dignitaries, the well suited and structured curriculum and an optimized
teaching and learning experience provided by the highly trained staff; the increasing
number of diploma and postgraduate diploma holders of Bandaranaike
International Diplomatic Training Institute remain a testimony to the quality
education it provides.
Isuru Anushka Perera
Recipient of the Sirimavo Bandaranaike
Award and Distinction holder of the Diploma in Diplomacy & World Affairs
(Batch XVIII)
This article originally appeared on the 'Sunday Observer' Newspaper, December 8 2019, page 47.
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